Sleeping Problems in the Elderly--Maintaining Proper Sleeping Habits

Throughout this week, we’ve covered various topics concerning sleeping problems in the elderly, from the basics to specific sleep disorders and other causes.

Now that you have a better understanding of why sleeping problems occur, we’re going to talk about a few ways to help you or your aging loved one maintain proper sleeping habits.

Maintaining proper sleep habits on your own

In our previous post, we mentioned several kinds of treatments for disorders such as sleep apnea or Restless Leg Syndrome (RLS). However, depending on the severity of insomnia, there are several ways you can help maintain proper sleeping habits on your own. Remember, if you’re ever unsure, you should always seek out the advice of a medical professional in order to ensure that all the proper steps are being taken to maintain the best possible health.

Here is what you can do to help (adapted from helpguide.org):

Daytime habits

Despite what you may think, proper sleeping habits aren’t confined to bedroom. In fact, what you do throughout the day can really affect the way you sleep at night, which is why it is important to be aware of your daytime habits and how they can affect you at night.

  • Be active. Staying active throughout the day helps to naturally prepare your body to wind itself down at the end of night. You can stay active by exercising regularly and getting sunlight to naturally balance your sleep-wake cycles.
  • Limit caffeine, alcohol, and nicotine. Stimulants affect proper sleeping habits by disrupting your deep sleep. If such things easily affect you, try to limit them or refrain from using them after a certain point in the day.
  • Stay positive. Having a positive outlook helps to de-stress your body and reduce anxiety and depression, which can keep your mind racing throughout the night. Try your best to end your day with a positive attitude rather than a negative one.

Right before bed

Avoid heavy/large meals. Heavy meals around dinnertime keep you up because your body will continue to digest the food. Instead, try your best to eat light meals and/or snacks before bed.

Avoid excessive light and noise. Loud noises and excessive light can upset your sleep cycle by offsetting your body’s production of melatonin levels. Try to wind down before bed by reading a book or listening to soft music and avoid sleeping with the TV or music on.

Other suggestions

  • Avoiding using your bedroom for other activities such as work, watching TV, etc. This will help you associate the bedroom with sleeping and signal your brain that it is time to wind down.
  • Maintain a consistent sleep schedule by going to bed and waking up at the same time every day.
  • Develop bedtime rituals that help you relax and slowly ease yourself into a good nights rest.
  • Avoid sleeping aids. Sleeping aids are not meant for long-term use and can often worsen your insomnia through dependency. Consult your doctor before taking any sleeping aids.

Sleeping is a vital part of maintaining your health. With these tips, we hope to help you or your aging loved one develop proper sleeping habits that will keep you healthy for years to come. As always, if you have any questions or concerns about any of the topics we discuss, please feel free to give us a call!

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On Monday, we gave you an introduction to sleeping problems in the elderly. As we mentioned, having a good nights sleep is vital to maintaining our health, which is why it is so important to understand the ins and outs of sleeping, including why we sometimes have difficulty sleeping.

So today, we’re going to talk about specific sleep disorders, as well as other causes that may result in difficulty sleeping. Take a look below:

Sleep disorders

Sleep apnea. The most common sleep disorder among adults, sleep apnea occurs when your breathing is disrupted during sleep. Sleep apnea results in a lack of oxygen to the brain and body, making it difficult for people to get a proper nights rest.

According to WebMD, there are two types of sleep apnea:

  • Obstructive sleep apnea (OSA): The more common of the two forms of apnea, it is caused by a blockage of the airway, usually when the soft tissue in the back of the throat collapses during sleep.
  • Central sleep apnea: Unlike OSA, the airway is not blocked, but the brain fails to signal the muscles to breathe due to instability in the respiratory control center

*It should be noted that snoring doesn’t necessarily mean a person has sleep apnea. For a proper diagnosis/treatment, seek the advice of a medical expert.

 

Treatment for sleep apnea varies, depending on the severity of the case. In some instances, a doctor may advice certain lifestyle changes such as weight loss, exercise, or changes in sleeping positions. In more serious cases, a doctor may suggest surgery, or a Continuous Positive Airway Pressure (CPAP), a treatment in which a mask is worn over the nose and/or mouth that regulates airflow while you sleep.

Restless Legs Syndrome (RLS)

RLS is a disorder of the part of the nervous system that affects the legs. People with RLS often feel uncomfortable sensations in their legs and an irresistible urge to move their legs in order to relieve the sensation. As a result, RLS can often affect our sleeping habits and cause us to wake up through the night.

While there are currently no medical tests to diagnose RLS, doctors may use blood tests and other exams to rule out other conditions. Treatment such as exercise, leg massages, or changes in sleeping habits are targeted at easing symptoms.

Other causes

Outside of these disorders, there are various other causes that may impact sleep habits as well. In order to pinpoint the cause, it is best to seek the advice of a medical professional.

These may include the following (adapted from helpguide.org):

  • Poor sleep habits
  • Pain or medical illness
  • Depression
  • Medications
  • Lack of exercise
  • Stress

On Friday, we will round off our series with a post on ways to help you maintain proper sleeping habits. As always, if you have any questions or concerns about your loved ones health, please feel free to contact us at anytime!

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An Introduction to Sleeping Problems in the Elderly

Ask your aging loved ones how they slept the night before, and you’re bound to hear a few complaints.

It’s no surprise to hear an elderly person tell you they have difficulty sleeping. According to researchers, nearly 50% of older American adults complain of chronic trouble with sleep.

As we know, sleep is a vital part of maintaining our health, which is why it’s important to do what we can to ensure that our loved ones are getting their much-needed shut-eye.

Throughout this guide, we’re going to cover several topics regarding sleeping problems among the elderly, from the basics of sleep, to specific sleep disorders, to what we can do to maintain our sleep.

Today, we are going to focus on the basics. Take a look below:

The need for sleep does not decrease with age

As we age, the amount of time we sleep seems to decrease significantly, especially for the elderly; according to researchers, healthy young adults sleep 95% of the night, whereas healthy older adults, ages 60 and above, sleep 85% of the night.

This is due in part to changes in our sleep patterns as a result of aging. As we age, our bodies produce lower levels of growth hormones, affecting our deep sleep cycle and the amount of melatonin our body produces. As a result, we may experience more fragmented sleep, causing us to wake up more often and throwing off our internal clock.

However, despite the changes in our sleep patterns, sleep is still an essential part of maintaining our health, meaning that aging adults require just as much sleep as young adults do.

The amount of sleep you get is a good gauge of your health

Sleeping well helps to maintain both physical and mental health, as it is important for such things as improving concentration and memory, refreshing our immune system, and repairing cell damage.

As such, health experts take into consideration a persons sleep habits when gauging their health, as those who have trouble sleeping are more likely to suffer from depression, as well as certain illnesses such as cardiovascular disease, diabetes, and weight gain.

Sleep problems are not inevitable

Fortunately, trouble with sleep is not an inevitable part of aging. While difficulty sleeping is common among the elderly, that doesn’t necessarily mean it is entirely the result of aging. According to one study, most of the changes in sleep patterns occur between the ages of 20 and 60. Beyond the age of 60 though, older healthy adults experience very little change in their sleep patterns.

Rather, difficulty sleeping may occur as we age due to various health issues, such as certain illnesses, chronic pain, and/or depression. So, by maintaining our health, we can help to improve our sleep patterns to a certain degree.

Sleep is essential to maintaining our health and well-being, which is why it is so important to understand why and how we can ensure proper sleeping habits for our loved ones. On Wednesday, we’ll give you an outline of various sleep disorders, but in the meantime, if you have any questions or concerns, please feel free to give Encompass a call. We’d love to hear from you!

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How to Help Your Aging Parent Manage Their Depression

Throughout these past two weeks, we’ve discussed a wide variety of topics surrounding elderly depression.

Depression can cause serious harm to your loved one if untreated, which is why it’s so important to help your aging parent manage their depression as soon as possible.

To round off our series, we’re going to talk about several options you and your loved one can consider to help manage their depression. Take a look below:

Seeking Medical Assistance

Seeking out a medical opinion from a professional is an extremely important step to helping your loved one manage their depression. Not only does it help you gauge the severity of their depression, it also helps you seek out treatment in a more organized manner, rather than guessing and prolonging their experience.

Another important thing to consider is that seeking out medical advice may also narrow the possibility of other illnesses, such as dementia, which has similar symptoms to depression. Doing so can help increase the chance of proper treatment, sooner rather than later, which may improve your parents life drastically.

Medical Treatment

Once you’ve sought out a medical opinion, your doctor may offer you a few different options for medical treatment. In some instances, a doctor may prescribe a combination of medical treatments depending on what they find necessary.

Here are some of the medical treatments you can expect:

Medicine

Psychotherapy or counseling

Your doctor may also prescribe some form of psychotherapy or counseling, which can help to address underlying causes rather than just the symptoms. These may include the following:

  • Supportive counseling
  • Therapy
  • Support groups

Managing Depression at Home

Another important aspect of managing depression is taking initiative outside of seeking medical treatment. Here are just a few ways your aging parent can help to manage their depression:

  • Exercise
  • Connect/reconnect with others
  • Maintain a healthy diet
  • Maintain a balanced sleep schedule
  • Finding new hobbies or returning to old ones
  • Volunteering
  • Caring for a pet

Managing depression can be a rather difficult task”especially as you age. However, by taking the proper steps to understand depression, as well as the initiative to seek out proper treatment, your loved one can manage their depression and improve their quality of life drastically.

At Encompass, we strive to ensure the best quality of life through all stages of the aging process, and that means going through the good and the bad with you. If you are concerned about your loved ones well being or have any questions, please feel free to give Encompass a call. We are here to help.

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How to Approach Your Aging Parent about Depression

Having an understanding of what elderly depression entails is one of the key steps to helping your loved ones improve their lives.

Throughout this guide, we’ve talked about the various aspects of elderly depression, from a brief overview (i.e. the physical effects, suicide rates, and the importance of addressing such issues), to the causes of depression, to the physical signs of depression, as well as the mental signs of depression.

Now that you’re better acquainted with the various aspects of elderly depression, we’re going to help you by guiding you through how to care for them in their time of need. For today, we’re going to focus on how to approach your aging parent when it comes to discussing depression.

Take a look below:

It’s never just in their head

Throughout this guide, we’ve talked about the importance of understanding just how much depression can affect a persons life. As such, it’s important to take everything your parents say into consideration. Never treat your loved one as if their symptoms are all in their head. Whether it has to do with physical symptoms such as chronic pain or headaches, or mental symptoms such feelings of loneliness or extreme feelings of guilt, belittling your parents problems will only make the situation worse and prevent you from properly helping them.

Depression is more than just a simple illness

Another thing you want to remember is that you avoid treating your loved ones problem like a common cold or flu. Remember, depression is much more complicated than it seems. Once again, belittling their situation by making them feel like they have an illness that simply needs to cured, will only make them feel worse about it and will more than likely cause them to close up rather than let you help.

Talk them through it

Most importantly, you need to make sure you show your support for your parents by talking them through their struggles. Letting them know you are willing to help is one of the best ways to warm them up to idea of that things can be improved because sometimes, they just need to know someone is there by their side. Hopefully, once they feel comfortable enough opening up to you, they will have the confidence to seek out professional help.

Approaching your parents about their depression can be difficult not only for them, but for you as well. Remember though, the sooner you approach them, the better chance you have at improving their lives.

As always, if you ever concerned about the well-being of your loved one, please feel free to give us a call. We are always here to help.

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The Mental Signs of Elderly Depression

Last week, we discussed the various aspects of elderly depression, from a brief overview (i.e. the physical effects, suicide rates, and the importance of addressing such issues), to the causes of depression, and finally the physical signs of depression.

Many elderly loved ones may experience a form of depression that goes unnoticed because they aren’t willing to open up about their experiences. This is often due to the stigma attached to them, which in turn requires a little detective work on your end.

Last week, we gave you the physical signs of elderly depression, and to complete our list, today, we’re going to talk about a few of the mental signs that may indicate that your loved one has elderly depression. Take a look below:

  • Frequent mood swings. Perhaps the most common sign of depression, your loved one may experience extreme changes in mood, such as going from an extremely happy mood to extremely sad or upset. It’s often difficult to know when a mood change will strike. They may occur from day to day, or within a matter of hours from one another. The cause of these mood swings may not be so apparent, and often seems small or trivial to the outsider who doesn’t understand depression.
  • Loss of interest in hobbies or withdrawal from social activities. You may also notice that your parent is beginning to lose interest in things that were once important to them, such as hobbies, friends, and even family. In turn, your parent may be reluctant to see their friends, leave home, or engage in any sort of activity, and may make comments about the pointlessness of these things that were extremely important to them at one point in time.
  • Increased feeling of guiltiness. Your parent may also express a lack of self-regard, which is often followed by extreme feelings of guilt, such as feelings of worthlessness or worries about being a burden.
  • Thoughts of suicide. Thoughts of suicide are very real among the elderly, and can prove to be fatal if they go unnoticed. If you’ve heard your parents make frequent remarks about the desire to die, or any mention of suicidal thoughts, be sure to seek attention immediately.

Depression is a very serious issue that affects many aging parents. Here at Encompass, we believe that it’s important to have a full understanding of what elderly depression entails.

For the rest of the week, we’ll be discussing ways you can help your parents overcome their depression. In the meantime, if you have any questions or concerns about your loved one, please feel free to give us a call. We’re here to help.

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The Physical Signs of Elderly Depression

Throughout this week, we’ve discussed the various aspects of elderly depression, from a brief overview (i.e. the physical effects, suicide rates, and the importance of addressing such issues), to the causes of depression.

Understanding the causes of your loved ones circumstance is only one part of understanding depression. In some instances, a parent may be able to hide their depression, requiring you to do a little detective work. So, to finish off this weeks guide, we’re going talk about a few signs that may indicate that your loved is depressed. Take a look below:

Physical Symptoms

As we’ve mentioned throughout this weeks guide, depression can be much more than a mental affliction. Because physical symptoms of depression can often be persistent, your parent may experience chronic pain or discomfort.

As such, it is important to take into account your loved ones physical health and to not rule out depression as a cause otherwise, such symptoms may not be properly treated.

Below, we’ve outlined some of the physical symptoms, which may indicate that your loved one has depression (adapted from WebMD):

  • Headaches, dizziness or lightheadedness. Headaches are perhaps the most common physical symptom of depression. Along with headaches, your loved one may experience dizziness or lightheadedness, which can increase the likelihood of serious injury from falling.
  • Back pain, muscle aches and joint pain. Along with causing chronic pain, depression may also heighten pain and discomfort caused by other health problems. If you loved one has back pain, muscle aches, or joint pain, it’s very possible that depression isn’t the cause but too many people don’t even consider it as a possibility when they see physical pain.
  • Chest pain.  Chest pain can also be a sign of depression. However, anyone experiencing chest pain should receive medical assistance immediately, as it may be a sign of serious heart, stomach, lung or other problems.
  • Change in appetite or weight. Your loved one may also have a change in appetite or weight. Whether your parent is gaining or losing weight, extreme fluctuations in weight and appetite can be a sign that your parent is depressed.
  • Digestive problems. Body changes caused by depression (i.e. drastic weight changes) can result in digestive problems as well. This may lead to digestive problems, such as diarrhea or constipation. In regards to diarrhea, be aware of your pars fluid intake, as it may lead to dehydration.
  • Exhaustion and fatigue. Another common symptom of depression is the feeling of exhaustion or fatigue. If your loved one finds it difficult to get out of bed in the morning or do daily task that they normally can do, they may be experiencing depression.
  • Sleeping problems. Along with exhaustion and fatigue, many people with depression may have difficulty sleeping or experience an imbalanced sleep cycle.

Check back on Monday to see our post on the mental signs of elderly depression, as well as the second part of our guide on Depression in the Elderly, which we will cover over the rest of the week. In the mean time, if you have any questions or concerns about your loved one, please feel free to give us a call. We’re here to help.

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Tracing the Causes of Depression In the Elderly

On Monday, we gave you an introduction to elderly depression, discussing the physical effects, suicide rates, and the importance of addressing such issues.

As we mentioned then, depression can be difficult not only on our aging loved ones, but on the rest of the family as well. However, having an understanding of what elderly depression entails can help to ease the pain and suffering of your loved ones, as well as ease the stress it may put on your family.

One way to understand how and why depression occurs is by looking at its causes. To help you get on the right track, today, we’re going to talk about just that. Take a look below:

Physical Causes

As we discussed in our introduction to depression, depression can be more than just mental and this goes for its causes, as well. As we age, health becomes a very important, if not more serious concern, which is why the potential for depression is there when we find our health on the decline. Physical causes may include the following:

    • Chronic or severe pain: The inability to stop pain may frustrate your loved ones because they no longer feel in control of their body.
    • Disabilities/immobility: Like pain, your parent may feel stressed because they are unable be as active as they once were.
    • Change in physical appearance: Whether because of aging, surgery, or a disease, you parent may begin to feel self-conscious about their appearance, which may also lead to depression.
    • Medical conditions: As noted by helpguide.org, medical conditions afflicting the elderly can make a huge impact on their lives. In some instances, the illness may trigger their depression directly, or impact them psychologically. These conditions may include:
      • Parkinsons disease
      • Stroke
      • Heart disease
      • Cancer
      • Diabetes
      • Thyroid disorders
      • Vitamin B12 deficiency
      • Dementia and Alzheimers disease
      • Lupus
      • Multiple sclerosis

 

Bereavement or Loss (Non-Physical Causes)

To many, the most obvious cause of depression is linked to the loss of a loved one. As we age, the chance of experiencing such losses is likely to increase, which may lead an elderly person to have a less than optimistic outlook surrounding their loneliness or inability to prevent such losses.

So what exactly is the root of the problem?

As you were reading this, you may have noticed that your loved one is afflicted by a number of the things we have listed above. Unfortunately, there can be a number of causes that may lead one to depression, making it much more difficult to trace.

This small guide, however, may help you understand the serious of the situation, as well make you more sympathetic to your parents circumstance. It is important to remember that depression is more than just a simple problem that can be fixed understanding how complicated the situation can be is one of the key steps to help your parents through such a journey, so please make an effort to be more sympathetic towards them.

At Encompass, we strive to ensure the best quality of life through all stages of the aging process, and that means going through the good and the bad with you. If you are concerned about your loved ones well being or have any questions, please feel free to give Encompass a call. We are here to help.

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A Few Basic Facts About Depression in the Elderly

A while back, we did a brief blog post on the topic of elderly depression. As we mentioned then, depression is a common problem for elderly people.

As we age, we’re faced with retirement, the death of loved ones, increased isolation, and declining health all of which have the possibility of affecting our outlook on life.

Depression can be hard, not only on our aging loved ones, but on the rest of the family as well, which is why it’s so important to make sure we do our best to ensure that our loved ones are properly cared for if and when depression strikes.

Throughout this week, we’ll talk about various aspects of elderly depression, from a general overview, to causes and signs of depression.

For today, we’ll begin with some basic things you need to know about depression in the elderly. Take a look below:

Depression is more than just mental.

Despite the fact that depression is considered a mental illness, depression can actually affect us physically, too. Those with depression will often experience chronic pain, fatigue, changes in appetite and weight, as well as difficulty sleeping.

In turn, their physical health can decline significantly and may result in other serious complications. This is part of the reason why it’s so important to not make your loved ones feel like it’s all just in their head. Doing so avoids addressing the issue and also increases the likelihood of causing your loved one suffering.

Suicide rates are high among the elderly.

According to a recent article in The New York Times New Old Age blog, 2010 statistics taken from the Center for Disease Control show that among those over 65, 14.9 per 100,000 take their own lives each year. Out of those numbers, elderly white men have the highest rate of suicide with about 29 per 100,000 over all, and more than 47 per 100,000 among those over age 85. Those numbers may be under-reported due to the stigma associated with suicide.

Depression is not inevitable.

Suicide and depression are especially difficult subjects to talk about. And, while many would rather avoid these subjects altogether, addressing such issues can do a lot to prevent unfortunate incidents such as suicide from occurring.

As we mentioned above, suicides among older people have declined in recent decades, which is likely attributed to improved screening and treatment of depression, meaning that depression can be avoidable (or at least treatable). By taking the proper steps to make sure your loved ones are adequately cared for, you can do a lot to maintain (if not improve) their outlook, despite all of the difficult trials they have gone through.

At Encompass, we strive to ensure the best quality of life through all stages of the aging process, and that means going through the good and the bad with you. If you are concerned about your loved ones well being or have any questions, please feel free to give Encompass a call. We are here to help.

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Talking Money With Your Aging Parent--How to Start the Conversation

Throughout this week, we’ve given you several tips on talking with your parents about their financial assets, from why it is important, to what information you need to ask for when having the conversation.

As we’ve mentioned before, money can be a quite a touchy subject which is why it’s so important to tread lightly and consider your parents point of view when approaching them.

Along with treading lightly, there are a few other things you should watch out for when approaching your parents. Here is what you need to know about getting the conversation started:

Awkward is okay (if not inevitable).

Let’s face it regardless of how you approach the situation, the conversation is bound to seem a little bit awkward and difficult. This is entirely okay.

In fact, AARP caregiving expert Amy Goyer, suggests acknowledging that with your parents. Being up front levels the playing field, reducing the chance of your loved one feeling guilty because they find the conversation difficult, while you seem completely okay. Refraining from putting on a poker face will make things much easier for everyone.

Let them stay in control.

It’s their money, not yours, so treat it as such.

The last thing you want is to make your loved one feel like they are losing control of their assets simply because they are getting old. Throughout all of your conversations, the key is to make sure that they feel like they are still in control, and that you’re only there to advise them when they no longer have the ability to.

Bring in the professionals.

It never hurts to have a second opinion. Try setting up a meeting with your loved ones doctor or lawyer, or maybe even ask if you can tag along next time they have an appointment.

Remember, though try to make sure your loved one doesn’t feel ganged up on. The more people there are joining in on the conversation, the more likely that can happen, so be careful.

Don’t lose your cool.

Most importantly, don’t lose your cool. While it can certainly be frustrating because you’re only trying to help, getting mad at your loved one won’t get you anywhere and will more than likely cause them to avoid the situation altogether. Be careful about what you say, and always their point of view in mind.

While these conversations aren’t easy, trying your best to maintain your composure and considering your parents point of view will make them much more manageable. As always, if you have any questions, please feel free to give us a call. At Encompass we strive to make all stages of the aging process the best possible!

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